Some times in life......

Every now n then we find people who change our lives in some way or other..... Sometimes we find people whose -ve attitute lets us learn how not to be...n some ppl's +ve attitude teaches us how we really should try to be....

I have had one such ultimate experience on last sunday.

During my Vacation i Visited Nashik... (mom had been posted there quite some time back)
None of those days were very exciting kind but it was nice to be away from campus for a week especially after the last 1 month of WTF...
But, The Best Moment actually came through a very very sad incident....exactly 45 days ago, mom's coleague had an accident... he is fine now but his wife is bed ridden in hospital for atleast an year now... And then at home for god knows how many days. she has a broken Spinal Cord...( i donno what that bone is called) third bone from the neck, completely got Smashed ... a bone replacement operation was done & she is just now able to move her limbs...
I haven't seen many people in those situations...but really none of those i have seen were so courageous... so inspirational...The Shine in the eyes... the warmth on the face... the attitude about life... so uncharecteristic... infact today for even the smallest of accidents people behave as if the world has over for them... But this woman & her charm is one of the things that i would remember for ever...

The pain that she is going thru....i donno...well no one knows really... But the way she talks at even this stage...pulls out a couple of jokes frm nowhere....Laughs till she can hold the pain... Gives a smiling warm welcome to every one who visits her... Responds to every single person...

I have known from my study about her that she was a very very hardworking woman...is a housewife, but would never b sitting idle. Always doing something or other... always working on somethings...

And i believe even in current situation she is yet the same... I still can't recollect which one thing was that ..that was really inspiring... may b just that moment...But that was it.

I almost never go to temples....unless friends insist...And praying is not in my dictionary.... But after a real long time... I prayed for her that night before sleeping...

That is the impact she has had on me.I really wish she would be back in form.